Hi there! My name is John and I am a 32 year old man, living in Kent in the UK. I am a man with severe learning disabilities, and although I’m pretty well-educated and can string a decent sentence together, I still don’t have much luck with the ladies.
After years of plastering myself over the ‘regular’ dating websites out there, and getting nowhere fast, I decided to take a slightly different approach to dating, and I decided to hop on the disabled dating bandwagon.
At first, I did what most men my age (and in my circumstances) would have done, signing up to every site Google would offer me, creating beautiful, interesting profile pages with only the very best of my chat-up lines, and the smiliest of my photos.
Sadly, I found this to be a total waste of my time. You see, with dating, as with most things in life, it’s quality that counts, not quantity.
After a while, I could spot a pattern with these websites. Some of them, I seemed to be having great luck with, and some of them I really, really didn’t.
DisabledDatingClub.com, for example, was a great site that offered impressive value for money, and a healthy mix of members too. In fact, they are considered to be one of the most popular disabled dating websites out there now, and it’s not really hard to see why.
Other websites, on the other hand, I didn’t have much luck with. Dating4Disabled.com seemed to have only one hundred members or less on the site every time I went on there, and as you can probably imagine, I didn’t have much luck finding someone. In fact, I didn’t even make it to the point of upgrading my membership… Luckily.
The point I’m trying to make here is that I wasted not only hundreds of hours of my time, trawling websites with barely any members, not really getting anywhere, when I could have been focusing all my time on just ONE website, but money too. A lot of money. If I had picked just one (or two) sites that would actually help me in my quest to find love, I might have been married off by now. I’d probably be a lot richer than I am too.
I decided to start this disabled dating review site to bring you the truth about those sites you’re thinking about signing up to. Isn’t it smart to read the reviews about anything you buy online? You wouldn’t buy a TV without first checking it out, would you? So don’t pick a dating website without doing your research.
Don’t be put off by the things you have read here. Above anything else, you should always just go with your gut instinct. If you know you are ready to find someone to settle down with, and grab that happy ever after that seems to be happening to everyone but you, go out there and find it. Just make sure you pick a decent disabled dating website when you do. Being disabled is hard enough, without adding more problems to the mix…